How Do Fat, Bald, Ugly Men Get Such Hot Women?
What Is The Most Common Piece Of Advice Women Give Men About Attraction?
“Just be yourself!”
Most guys just don’t believe what women are telling them, they just can’t see how “just being yourself” could work!
Seriously though… IT DOES WORK!!!
In fact, this is THE MOST effective way of attracting women! If [any] guy approaches [any] girl and acts superficial, fake, over-the-top or “on” that girl won’t have anything to be attracted to. You aren’t providing her with something that she will like, therefor she won’t like you! So acting like a jerk is probably the WORST advice you can get! Being nice, respectful and interested on the other hand, well there are already three things that she will like about you! Add a little humor and you are guaranteed to catch the eye of any girl you like!
Now I know… you’re thinking that you’ve tried to be yourself in the past and it doesn’t work. However I promise you, that you were not yourself if she didn’t respond to you! Don’t feel bad, the truth is that most men just don’t know how to be themselves!
Here’s the deal with “just being yourself”…
~ If you’re nervous around a hot girl, you’re NOT being yourself! You’re quieter and shyer than you would normally be, because of the fear of rejection.
~ When you fake confidence, you’re NOT being yourself! You’re parodying what you think you should be like!
~ Don’t be afraid of awkward silences! If you keep talking and talking she will sense the stress in the atmosphere, and again you are NOT being yourself!
~ You are overly nice, you do anything she asks and pay for everything, trying not to offend or scare her off, and then you wonder why she likes you as a friend!
The problem with these things is that you just can’t live the rest of your life like that, so she will have to meet the real you eventually! The only problem is that no girl is going to respond to any of these things so you will never have the chance to show her your true self. Plus if you were to “con” a girl into you, when you had to finally show yourself do you think she would still like you if you weren’t the same person she met before? Being yourself is the point in the first place, so why waste time and get rejected when you can just get the girl the first time?… just by being yourself!
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